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Tuesday, 8 May 2018

Sri Lanka and some truths

We left Cambodia and arrived in Colombo, Sri Lanka. We had about two weeks to see as much as we could, so we had a packed itinerary. There is the usual "tourist circuit" that most people do when they land in Colombo, they either head to the mountains or go south along the coast hitting the beach towns. We opted to start in the mountains as we just left Koh Rong and were craving something different. We went from Colombo to Kandy to Ella to Ulawalawe (we did Ulawalawe instaed of Yala as we had heard it was less busy) to Mirissa to Unawatuna to Galle then back to Colombo. 


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We went from Colombo to Kandy, skipping the north, there are 3 UNESCO heritage sites that we opted to not go to.
I want to start this post by saying that I may have been biased while visiting Sri Lanka, which is a shame really, as I was so looking forward to it. From everyone we met, I have been told this is such a beautiful country...unfortunately by the time we got to Sri Lanka we were so.....tired....

I know, I know, tired from what? I'm not working, I am flitting from one beautiful destination to another, people could only dream of the life we are leading...When I say it out loud I cringe, I sound so ungrateful, and trust me, I'm not..I wake up every morning and truly appreciate the opportunity that we have, loving this time we are spending together, knowing it will never be like this again....but I'm still tired...
I am starting to get really homesick...I miss Jesse, and my dog..I miss not having to pack every few days, I miss running the taps and drinking the water that comes out. I miss recycling, I miss rules, I miss crossing at the lights (and when its green that means we can walk and cars will STOP), I miss exercising, I miss not feeling guilty for sitting doing nothing (when your travelling you always feel like you have to go, go go). I miss logic...I just miss home. One year is a long time and not for the faint hearted. truth be told, 9 months would have been perfect, but here we are...we have landed in Sri Lanka and I WILL enjoy myself, even if it kills me..

(Have I mentioned that my illness from Cambodia has still been lingering and the girls and I got it bad! We were in bed for about 5 days off and on and then Johnny got sick...needless to say this added to our thoughts on Sri Lanka).

We land in Colombo, and pretty much left right away, taking a taxi to Kandy. We stayed at a lovely home stay by the lake and visited all the sites the city had to offer. We hired a driver for the day and visited the Ceylon tea plantation, a spice garden, an elephant sanctuary (was not nearly as good as the ones in Chiang Mei), and our favourite, the botanical gardens.

Th lake in Kandy, right by our homestay

the tea plantation


having tea at the tea plantation





the beautiful grounds at the Botanical Gardens




The people in Sri Lanka are so lovely, these kids all played a big game of tag with Johnny and the girls, I was lying on the grass ready for bed





All the guide books talk about the train from Kandy to Ella, it is rated the top 10 train rides in the world as far as scenery goes. We had done our research and heard where we should sit and what time to go etc etc, so we thought we were ready....Johnny went down the day before and was told that he had to come back in the morning to buy the tickets. He then woke up early was second in line and bought our tickets, but was told we just had to wait on the platform and it was general seating (what a waste of his time)... we then knew this may get ugly...what we did not realize, is it was a holiday for Sri Lanka and there were so many locals also on the train, (remember we had all our luggage with us as well). To make matters worse the train boards both sides, so by the time the train was ready to board both platforms were rammed. When the doors opened it was a mad scramble. Picture Bloor station at 8am during the week...total nightmare. Everyone was pushing and shoving and we were all squished like sardines (I was dropping elbows left and right). Have I mentioned this ride was 7 hours! No thanks Tom Hanks, we were out of there...
We made an executive decision to get off and paid the $80 for a taxi to drive us the 4 hour ride instead...best decision ever (did I mention at this point Anneka also had a fever? Total shit show!)


The drive to Ella was SPECTACULAR, seriously so beautiful, even though I was not feeling well, I could not help but be in awe of the incredible scenery. 





We got to our homestay and literally went to bed. This was the start of our 5 days off and on- fever, chills and all around miserableness. Fortunately, our home stay was lovely, and the views...magnificent...there could be worse places to feel like crap. 
the view from our deck- Ella Rock- we had planned to hike to it, but only Johnny was up for it

We took turns hiking that first day, Liv and I felt OK so we went to little Adam's Peak, (when we got back Johnny went).  What an incredible spot...all I can say is WOW...





Johnny at Little Adam's Peak

The girls and I ended up feeling worse...bed for us for the next few days. we extended our stay in Ella hoping we would feel better to enjoy all the hiking, but unfortunately no such luck...Johnny was able to climb Ella rock and visit the nine arch bridge. We had to move home stays half way though our visit, and the new one, while a little out of town, had the most beautiful waterfall in the back garden..I am happy to say we were able to get out of bed for a few hours to enjoy this amazing property. We were all so bad at one point we went to the local doctor, who in turn sent us to a hospital about an hour away. There they took our blood to make sure we did not have anything serious...thank goodness, test came back normal, just a virus for us all.

the waterfall in our back garden

Anneka was feeling better one day and went to the bridge with Johnny



our private waterfall


Johnny at Ella Rock


After 5 days we left Ella, sadly we did not do everything we wanted, but we have been pretty lucky with illness so I guess it was inevitable we get sick at some point. We headed to Udawalawe National Park for the safari....it was a toss between there and Yala, but we had heard Yala was crazy busy. We were only staying 1 day as we had been told there was not a heck of a lot to do besides the safari. We stayed at another home stay, and cursing we did not splurge a bit and get a place with a pool. The next morning we were up early and our driver came at 7am to take us to the park. Even though we were still not feeling the greatest, the safari was awesome, sady we did not see the elusive jaguar (apparently they are seen often in the park) we did see a ton of  elephants, water buffalo and monkeys. 







these guys were surrounding the baby, it was so amazing to watch as they did not  stray from his side





We left Udawalawe and headed to the beach town of Mirissa...a pretty bay, that unfortunately had a strong current. We did not spend a ton of time in the water as the waves were quite strong. We ended up paying $5 to spend the day at the fancy hotel right on the beach that had a nice pool. It was right about now when Johnny caught our virus, so for the next few days he was down and out...



The girls and I went to Weligama the next day as we heard the waves were a little calmer and they had great surfing... Liv still has a love hate relationship with surfing, and lost her battle after only an hour. 



We left Mirissa and headed to Unawatuna...another beach town that was apparently "more happening". We ended up splurging and staying at a pretty nice hotel, two pools, fancy dining room, the whole nine yards...good thing we did, as we were all STILL not feeling the greatest and spent a ton of time doing not a heck of a lot. 

one of our pools at the Flower Garden Hotel
If you know us at all you know we don't do well with sitting around...by day 3 we were ready to leave...We went to visit the neighboring town of Galle, which has an old fort dating from 1600's ...

the main entrance to the Fort at Galle


The Galle light house

It was quite pretty but so hot...(I went back to the hospital at this point as I was still feeling bad, and was given penicillin - oh wait I'm allergic to penicillin...the Dr responded, "well its very mild so should be fine."  What??? No thanks, I'm good.  

After 5 excruciating long days we were finally off to Greece...I am so sad to say that Sri Lanka just didn't do it for me. I was so prepared to love this country and for many reasons it just didn't click. It makes you realize how subjective travel is, so many layers can affect your reaction to a place, which is why I HATE recommending destinations to people, as our experience may be entirely different based on, health, weather, social encounters, food, accommodations etc etc 
My advice, go where YOU want to go, based on the experiences you hope to have, cross your fingers and hope its everything you dream...as I told the girls, they cant all be winners.


Sunday, 6 May 2018

Cambodia- Koh Rong

We first heard about Koh Rong from a diver Johnny met in Lombok, I also follow a travelling family on Instagram and they absolutely raved about this small little island. We decided to make the trek and go. After a comfortable-ish bus ride (called a hotel bus, with tiny little beds and curtains) we arrived in the town of Sihanoukville at 5:30am. We had to wait until 8am for our ferry to take us to Koh Rong. We opted to stay on the more popular beach Koh Touch, there are no cars on this island (very little in way of roads for that matter), so we thought we would stay where there is a little action. When we arrived at the pier, white sand seemed to stretch for miles. We were staying at the far side of Koh Touch so we needed someone from our bungalow come and grab us...(would have been difficult carrying our luggage through the beach).

the main part of Koh Touch

our bungalow, right on the beach

from the porch of our bungalow

in front of White Beach Bungalow where we stayed


eating dinner with the waves literally at our feet


walking into "town"

Koh Touch

There is nothing I can say we did not like about our time spent in Koh Rong, it truly is the island paradise most people look for. There is just enough to do to keep busy for a week, snorkeling, ropes course and zip lining, visits to town, hiking and a party every night if your looking. Our days were pretty full, going on two different boat cruises (Adventure Adam and Akunamatada), we went to a beach party one day and the girls and I went on an amazing rope course while Johnny went diving. We visited the much quieter island of Koh Rong Salom, and saw the famous beach that Survivor was filmed on...never a dull moment




one of the local villiges


We met the most amazing group of girls from Wales and England- these amazing, beautiful women were all studying to be doctors! They spent the day entertaining our girls, what great rold models...

Adventure Adam Boat cruise


the day ended with sunset, bonfire and frisbee:)

High Ropes course



hammocks are everywhere

show off!

so long Koh Rong!

Koh Rong is the epitome of the perfect island. Still off the beaten path enough tourism hasn't completely taken over, but enough to do if hanging around a beautiful beach all day isn't your thing...definitely put this place on your bucket list, but visit soon as I doubt it will stay this way for long.


Monday, 30 April 2018

Cambodia- Ankor Wot

We left Chaing Mei and headed to Cambodia, Johnny really wanted to head back to Siem Reap to visit Angkor Wat with the girls and we both wanted to head to southern Cambodia to the island of Koh Rong.

Siem Reap, a small town that is a gateway to the temples. I was very underwhelmed by this crowded, dusty city, and was happy to see the temples and leave. There is a back packer road called pub street, which is a lot of fun, but otherwise not much to report...it didn't help that it was here I first started to feel sick and I spent 1 of the two days we spent here in bed. 





We got up early and hired a tuk tuk to take us around the temples. We opted against the sunrise, (although by noon it was so hot we regretted our decision) but still started early enough meeting our driver at 8. The temples are just as impressive as they were 13 years ago when Johnny and I were last here, however there are much more restrictions and so many more people!
proper attire is required at Angkor Wot



some of the temples had no people around






doing head stands and hand stands every where I can:)







The girls were not as impressed as I had hoped, but it really was so hot and there was so much walking, by the end of the day we were all ready for a cold swim...

The next day Johnny took the girls to the land mine museum (I was still not feeling well so stayed in bed). Years ago an old high school friend of Johnny's (Richard Fitoussi) did some humanitarian work with this incredible man named Aki Ra, he is a former Khmer Rouge child soldier who works as a de-miner and museum curator in Siem Reap. He has devoted his life to removing landmines in Cambodia and to caring for young landmine victims. A Canadian charity, the Cambodian Landmine Museum Relief Fund, founded by Richard had been raising money to build a new facility.  Land was found near Banteay Srey Temple and with the help of donors across the globe the CLMMRF built the current Landmine Museum.  It opened in 2007.



voted CNN hero in 2010, Aki Ra has devotes his life to this cause




On our last night we went to a traditional Khmer dance theater. We had wanted to go to the popular circus, however tickets were sold out, so traditional dance it was...



After what felt like forever (time goes so slow when your not feeling well) the next night we booked our night bus to take the 9 hour ride to the south. We were all looking forward to returning to the beach towns we are all so fond of....